First off, mom is mentally here today and thanked me for saving her life, it’s the first time since last Tuesday that she’s made sense. She has surgery Wed and I’m so thankful she’s more there. I’ve been so worried I’d never get my mom back if that makes sense.
Lianna is currently asleep in our bed. She is visiting from Colorado and it’s so nice to see her! It’s the first time she’s slept next to a couple, and Kasey’s first time. Everything is very calm and peaceful. It was nice getting some 1:1 time in with her last night after Kasey turned in for the night.
A few funny things. She visited us on our 2 year anniversary, and now 3 as yesterday was Kasey and I’s 3 year. I also finally turned in what I’m calling the “lesbian money”, a bag of change I inherited after my divorce, it was my ex-wife’s and her wife’s change savings. We bought pizza with it, was almost $60 lmao.
I’m just laughing at that because it’s absurd. Lesbian money to pay for my poly dinner on my 3 yr anniversary on the 2 yr anniversary with our other partner. Suck it, Amanda.
Just got off the phone with my mom! First time I’ve really talked to her since all of this happened! She’s tired but is making sense. Thanked me for saving her life a few times and told me she’s worked through three of her major phobias, getting arrested, being admitted to the hospital, and talking to a therapist, LOL.
She’s also quit smoking. Now it’s my turn.
Kasey is making breakfast while Lianna is still asleep, but be nice being in that queer state in CST timezone 😛
Evening update, mom is 100% back to her old self mental state wise, thank GOD. They are going to try Chemo instead of bladder removal to try and shrink it. Fingers crossed!
Also, all the change went through the coinstar machine other than one 1961 Quarter that is made of silver. I’m going to keep it as a keepsake of surviving my “marriage”.
Mom has totally quit smoking, now it’s my turn to quit my habit as I always promised. God help me
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